FIXED! 2 issues to look at. 1st, make sure all the updates for 8.0 have been installed. 2nd, and this is what fixed it for me...turn off any security software you have running. Once I shut off Defender, the download went through. Checking compatibility takes a long time, but ultimately I got 8.1 installed.
This worked for me. Have no idea why Windows defender would be blocking a download FROM Microsoft but that did it for me. I have anothe machine that was having issues with, if we have success this may be the problem.... they may have to send an update for defender to allow the 8.1 update.... once again kind of stupid fix, but it worked for me.