With almost everything unchecked with msconfig services and startup most everything is in manual mode.
Suggestion: this is not good and can be contributing to your issue.
They should not be updating with a reboot. If there are background programs that I do not know about or do not know how to alter. Is there a way to find these?
Suggestion: Soluto
Is there anything that can be gleaned from viewing windows task manager processes, performance etc?
Suggestion: yes... you can see which processes are consuming resources.
For my computer > properties> allow indexing do you want to apply the change to C:\ only or C:, subfolders and tiles
Which choice and why?
*Suggestion: 1) Indexing happens mainly once and done (updates are quick.) You may just want to let it go, unless it's been more than a day. 2) apply changes to C: and subfolders, or your changes will be applied only to the top level of C:*
AOL is a hog and it does not open automatically. Only manual. Again it may be one of thos that runs secretly in the background??? but it is set to manual.
I do not know if I have an AV program to always download and install an update. How do I check?
Suggestion: this is not likely your problem, but to find out you need to check the settings in your AV program itself.
How do you uninstall all of the tool bars? Are they all found viewing in add remove programs or is there some other method?
Suggestion: this depends on each browser... it's not a universal answer.
I just want to be able to google search otherwise I do not need any toolbars