I also wasted a lot of time trying to figure out how to connect to an already paired bluetooth gadget. The solution was to make sure that it was not connected to any other device, including the Windows7 computer I wanted to reconnect it to.
If the bluetooth gadget hasn't been turned off or reset since the last time since it was connected to your Windows7 computer, it may be remembering the old connection. To fix that, turn the gadget off. That should wipe the connection to other devices
too. If you've got a headset, you might need to pull the battery.
Connecting and disconnecting can be done on Windows 7 with a couple clicks. Here's what works for me:
- Pair your bluetooth gadget.
- Click on the Bluetooth icon in the system tray (Bluetooth must be
turned on. If it is and the Bluetooth icon isn't there, restore it
following instructions).
- Click on "show bluetooth devices"
- In the popup window , click on the icon of the Bluetooth gadget you
want to connect/disconnect.
- In the next popup, you'll see a connect button if you are connected;
or a disconnect button if you aren't.
- Pin this popup to the taskbar.
- Now, to connect:
- If some device is already connected to your bluetooth gadget,
you must disconnect that device first.
- Then, click on the bluetooth icon you've added to the taskbar.
- And, click the popup's connect button. Your device should
connect.
- Before connecting some other device to your bluetooth gadget:
- Click on the bluetooth icon you've added to the taskbar
- Click the popup's disconnect button.
- Then, you can connect your other device
In the future, then it should be necessary only to remember to disconnect the gadget before connecting it to a new device.
Hope this helps,
Scott