Balibooblue,
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The only way I know to get around the need for an IR hardware device during the setup of Media Center for TV viewing is to use a "virtual" IR device. There is one called "Vista MCE IR Blaster" that is a file you download from the Internet that simulates an IR device. You will have to do a search for it. Or you can buy the hardware that Media Center is asking for relatively inexpensively online, about $20 USD.
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