GeorgeW,
Initially I thought my HP 32Q 4K monitor was too graphics intensive for my Surface Book 2. I'm fortunate to have a friend who works for Microsoft, and is very much an advocate of the Surface Book. He said the Book should easily be able to accommodate the monitor. He came over and spent a couple hours diagnosing the issues with my Surface Book 2. He swapped multiple cables, adapters, docks, monitors, he attached his Book to my system, he cleaned the connectors between the tablet portion and keyboard, and ultimately he narrowed it down to potential problem with one of the two graphics processors. He recommended I take it into the Microsoft Store, tell them everything he had done, and see if they could diagnose. They did confirm it was the graphics processor in the keyboard portion of the Book and they replaced it (luckily I had one day left on my warranty otherwise it would have been $600). They said it was a rare malfunction that they had only heard about but not seen at their store until I brought mine in. My new Book works fine now.